Question 1: What steps should a person in the Monday Morning Bridge group take to improve their bridge game?
Question 2 follows Question 1.
Question 2: How do you know when you are improving? I took this quote from a youth bridge website:
‘ Outcomes are your scores. Unfortunately, scores have a randomness factor. You can play a hand well and get a bad score. You can also play a hand poorly and get a good one. You can even play flawlessly for a whole session and get a mediocre score, or play mixed and get a great one.’
Based on this randomness how does one know they are improving?
Glenna:
Monday
Morning Players,
Think most if not all players need to make the same adjustments, changes,
challenges if they are improve. You cannot remain in the same position at
anything in life and expect to get better. Ralph took over Monday morning
bridge as it was failing and soon to be nonexistent and look at what he has
been able to do. Hope all of you thank Ralph weekly because you would not have
Monday bridge without him.
But to improve, you need to challenge yourself—play In his Wednesday
morning 199er game. Almost every time you play with someone new, they are going
to make suggestions or ideas of things they’ve learned and want to share their
knowledge with you. It’s new ideas to ponder.
I am proud of our bridge home for so many different reasons, but you need to
know we have one of the best well rounded bridge library of most of the world’s
bridge clubs. Borrow a book on play of the hand or defense and you’ll be amazed
at the new ideas. Then try them one at a time.
I tend to “preach” on things I’m passionate about, BUT, I promise this is
true: Do not learn 25 of the latest conventions: Learn what is invitational and
what is forcing. Learn to bid 6-card minors before a 4-card Major. Some
teachers give players the worst advice ever—do not mis-bid your hand in order to
bid a Major—the Major will still be able to be bid after you show a 5 or 6-card
minor. It’s not a case of missing a chance forever!
This step is the hardest for us to hurdle: You MUST play with better players.
People are afraid of being criticized or of looking foolish, BUT, you have to
step up and watch what the better, more experienced players bid, play and how
they defend. If you play up and a player makes a comment, take it as a helpful
suggestion and not as a criticism. Also, remember that sometimes people sound
more gruff than they mean to so give them the benefit of the doubt and try not
to feel crushed. I have been there my friends and have cried one or two times
in my bridge career, but used it as a challenge that I could do it and I worked
hard to achieve it.
Question 2 is easy for me: When you know very little, you don’t know you
could do better. You KNOW when you see that you just made a mistake, you have
improved!!!!! Do not watch scores, they are not valid, it’s more like luck when
you get little gifts or people don’t bid their games, etc.
Hope
this helps,
Glenna
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